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12.05.2005

Holiday Party Trends

Fashion Fashion Fashion!!! There's so much of it a diva can find herself lost in the forray of fashion houses everywhere.
It is the holiday season for most and finding a suitable party dress or suit for the company party or the country club's soiree could be rather daunting.

That's where super diva comes in. I am here to lead you in the right direction for this season. Really it is not as hard as you think. And there are so many styles out there, surely one will fit you..

First, here is a new vamping of the 50's inspired little black dress. Every self-proclaimed diva needs a litle black dress. They are great for any occasion even--morbid to say--funerals. How often do you look in the closet and can't find anything modest and chic to wear? The great thing about the little black dress is you can accessorize it with anything because it is a neutral color. I personally think little black dresses should be worn with big red heels.

Stuart Wietzman

Newport News

Chadwicks

For you more conservative divas who want to look chic with a modest twist, try this light green suit with these cute strappy heels. I also placed a pair of closed toed shoes for you frummers.

Chadwick's

Zappos

Charles

This green sleeveless dress is a great accessory for any red headed diva and will make you the envy of the party. We all know red heads look great in Green.

Newport-News

This awesome sari that I found is fabulous for you more ethnic divas or divas who like to stand out in a crowd. You will be dressed the part of a "Bollywood star" and blow everyone away in this show stopper. Pair it with these great Via Spiga bronze shoes and you are sure to turn heads.

EShakti

Via Spiga

This year holiday color has taken a new leap. You can get away with more than the customary red, green or white. Now, it is appropiate to wear a spin off or variation of these colors. With this in mind, for you girlie-girl divas I found this beautiful pink georgette dress. It remind me of the 19-teens/Vionnet era of bias cut dresses. It looks elegant without looking frilly. Pair it with these cute Kate Spade heels and you'd look like Cinderella at the ball.

Newport-News

Kate Spade

In my fashion trend alerts, silver is the metallic color of choice this season. For you divas who like to be decked in jewels, I found this beautiful silver dress and these fantastic shoes to match. You know my motto, "let's bling in the new year!"

Newport-News

Luichiny

J Renee

And last but not least, I know there are some divas out there who love to wear black with a twist--i.e, go Hollywood. I found this fabulous and I do mean fabulous black chiffon number and went wild. I took extra time and care searching for the perfect shoe so that you won't have to.

Newport News

Via Spiga

So divas, you are armed with knowledge and a platinum credit card-I prefer cash, now get out there and dress to thrill.

Ciao and Happy Holidays!

Future Frum Girl Freaks Out

Only Jews will undersatnd---
I'm freaking. FREAKING!!! I mean really is the frum world for me? I know I am not into the secular world but I am terrified of the religious world. I once belong to a very VERY religious world and it screwed me up, bad.

The most religious of people can be the most insane, mean and evil individuals out there. I am not sure if I can do it again. But at the same time I don't want to be reform--I may as well stay a gentile and I don't want to be conservative--because there is no real community.. I crave the community and the closeness orthodox Jews seemingly have with one another.. I don't regret never having to wear pants again but I am terrified about losing my personality or being pressured into it..

Another fear.. I'll never find a mate...I am not sure if I believe in beshert, ie. soulmate--The thought is too scarey to believe that I only have one chance to find true love..I have to admit I like the Chabad in Houston but surely they are not all this way. I was leaning toward Modern Orthodox Judaism but that seems to be conservatie Judaism with a mechitza.. Is there anyone out there who can help? I fear that my orthodox family is great ad I may be disillusioned by them and their community...

I am just ranting today. I just read a Chasidic girl's blog and a few orthodox jews blogs and it made me quite nervous. Oh well I will focus on the good I know and see through my family... But I would love to hear any suggestion that any of you may have and if you know of a good orthodox community in NYC let me know so I can make a good decision on where to live and be.. Hopefully I can be apart of a frum community like theone in the above picture where everyone is open minded and fun.. We will see. Hopefully I won't crack...

TTYL..

Note: I don't feel this way about Modern Orthodoxy but alot of Orthodox Jews do.. Rock and a hard place and if one more person tells me I can be a righteous Gentile. I will scream...